When Nothing Appears to Be Going Your Way...

It's easy to go after things when they are showing up. It becomes an instant proving playground that says if you play this way you will get that! That is awesome. It makes it very easy to become someone who goes after they want. Now the truth is that sometimes this momentum will carry you through and evolve in many magnificent directions. However - more than likely at some point you will reach for something way far outside your comfort zone and then you will encounter a possibility that is; life showing up as advertsity.

The point of it all is that the greater the object,the greater the advertsity. The stronger the vision the faster it will arrive and the stronger the opposition could feel. When you know you are on the right path amazing things happen and in order to see the light, sometimes we have to spend a few moments in darkness.

Where this becomes an issue is when people get lost in the darkness, or fail to realize they can find their way and than turn back. Many dreams and magnificent things lay broken and forgotten in this place along with many disillusioned people.

The title of this blog is, become a millionaire in 24 months. Is that possible? Yes. Is is probable? That is where belief combined with timing, opportunity and follow through all measure up, and even with all of those things in place, there is the reality that things are not going to appear to be going the right direction and what you do in that moment will determine the yes of no answer to that question.

Advertsity is a fact of life. We face it every day from the time we were tiny babys, hunger was the first advertsity we faced, walking, talking, all of those things that we somehow stumbled our way into success with were all part of the growing up and rest assured they were adversity. So if being hungry, learning to walk, learning to talk were all part of the opportunities of life, why would we suddenly reach the conclusion that as adults when we hit the wall of adversity we must give up? If we took our beliefs as an adult and the effort we are willing to put forth into our lives and put them into a baby's body, well, for many of us walking would be considered too darn hard and we be far too concerned about looking stupid!

Passion combined with action, persistence and consistency in the face of any and all adversity wins! When nothing appears to be going your way, forge your own path. Stay on target, stay focused, find a way, or simply BELIEVE that it is possible. Stay focused on the outcome, give thanks for the outcome, the success you have already had because it's already happened. Stay there and you will see opportunity before you like the parting of the red sea. You path will show itself, people will offer to assist you, money will show up from unexpected places, the nothing that appeared to be there will take shape and become something. You will find yourself in the right place at the right time.

The trick is to realize that what is outside of you is not the truth of you. What you decide, choose and determine for yourself on the inside can't help but become your outer experience. Be prepared, it will stir things up to become like this, it will wake up the demons, shake up the fear and ultimately allow for all the baggage, all the excuses, all the stories and all the crap to surface and it's what you do next that happens that counts.

Only you decide the life you get to live. When nothing appears to be going your way, stay focused and find another way. If you were driving to some destination of importance you would plan your route, you would follow directions, and if you ended up in the wrong place you would turn around and find your way through because where you are wanting to get to is important. In driving someplace if you took a turn and at the end of the road was a wall, would you give up and go home? That would be pretty ridiculous wouldn't it. Why life your life that way?

When nothing appears to be going your way, celebrate your successes. Remember who you are and where you are going. Listen to only those things that support your forward path. Stop allowing anything else to get in your way. Nay sayers will never tell you to go for it! They don't believe enough in themselves to ever tell someone else to do that. In fact, many folks, who may know and love you will attempt to stop you from ever getting to the other side of your dreams and goals, not because they don't love you but because they don't want to have to do it themselves and if you succeed it means that they could to and they really aren't that excited about making that kind of an effort. Sad? Yes, but that is not who you are, or who you are becoming.

Sometimes you have to be your own beacon, you have to be stronger than your greatest fear and be willing to look at your "stuff" eye to eye. It is the idea that we do not want to confront this things that keep us fighting and struggling. Ease and flow are possible if you allow it. When nothing appears to be going your way, go do something FUN!

The point is this, none of what is opposing you matters, it only has significance if you give it, it only has power if you allow it, it can only derail you if you jump the tracks. Know who you are, just make a decision about yourself and stick to it. Is it easy? Really.. No - however - it is simple.

Stay the course.

Deb