What is Happening Out There?

I ask the question only because I want to bring focus to where I believe it actually belongs. So, I ask you, what is happening out there in your life?

I'm sure you've got a laundry list of things that you can refer to; what isn't the way you would want it to be, what's not working, what hasn't happened etc. All viewed from an external perspective and always looking outside of yourself. That's where the real world is happening right? Outside?

Ok.. First. Your laundry list is focused on what you don't have, don't want and what isn't working. Guess what you get to get more off? What you don't have, don't want and what isn't working. No kidding. You get what you are focused on and if that is where you are at, than most assurdedly that is what you are experiencing. Second. The "real world" is such a speculative term as we are all part of something that we call the real world however our experience of this place is unique to us. Our definition of the truth is what's real to us and our experiences are exactly that, ours. You can take a group of people and have them all do something together and than interview them seperatly and they will all share a unique and different perspective on what they have just done. Yes, they will have all been together and will have some common ground, however their interpretation of what they have shared will be a little different and in some cases a lot different from one anothers.

We are not all alike, in fact no two of us are and that is what makes us so incredible. We have individual consciousness, we are capable of thinking for ourselves beyond instinct and we are capable of choosing our reactions. So, why do we have the tendency or need to "fit in"? That's something I believe we all ought to think about a lot. Why not celebrate our differences and cultivate the success within them.

I digress. What is happening out there, while it may be news worthy and noteworthy isn't the driving for in your life, what is, is what's happening inside of you. Your internal universes is the gage for your external experiences and until you get that, you will feel tossed by life's ocean praying for a calm sea. It doesn't have to be that way.

First, look at your laundry list and decide if you didn't have all those things you have written down, what would you have. So, for instance you if you wrote; "I can't talk to my boss he doesn't listen" you could rewrite that now from the idea of, if you actually got what you wanted with your boss what would it be? "I have an excellent relationship with my boss, I tell him my ideas and opinions and he listens to me all the time. We enjoy great communication and respect for each other". Get the point? Move forward to what you want and behave accordingly.

Second, get clear on your internal universe. Start observing your feelings and emotions around things. You reactions to life, are they positive or negative? Do you just react without thinking at all? Do you think a lot before reacting? Who are you? Get to know yourself. You may not like everything your see, however if you are willing to look you can than make changes and become someone you enjoy looking in the mirror at every day. And... this is important, ACCEPT yourself right now for who you are, love the fact that you came from somewhere and forgive yourself whatever you think you may have done. It's a clean slate. What do you want to create?

The outer world responds to your inner most thoughts, feelings and ideas. Your most passionate beliefs will manifest the fastest, so if you are in an unhappy place, start to realize you have the power to change. You are that remarkable.

I ask you one last time, what is happening out there? Take stock, define where you are, choose where you want to be, do the work on yourself first and go knock the cover of the ball. You deserve everything good.




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